I know that I'll look back and cherish these hectic mornings. I know I will. In fact, there are a thousand little moments each day that I scoop up carefully and lock away in my heart, knowing that while my mind may forget these teeny blessings, my heart never will.
I wake up as usual, with Chris poking and prodding me, "It's after 7. I'm late! You have to get up now! Come on, are you awake?! Get up! I'm leaving!" I try heroically to pry my eyes open and fight the tiny be-horned, red-dressed Bonnie on my shoulder urging me to ignore his pleadings and drift back off. Shortly after I hear the alarm set, and his thump, thump, thump off the porch and the roar of his super-cool muffler (or lack thereof) on his truck, I am able to relax again.
Drifting off... nice and easy... "eh." nice and... "eeehhh." "EEEHHH!" Like the winding up of a firetruck siren, I hear the whine begin. Slowly and spaced out, at first, growing in urgency and demand the longer I wait. "Just five more minutes," I plead. "Just play with Bunny Bear and your feet, or something. I'll be right there," I beg the one-way monitor, who I know is not passing my message on to the increasingly impatient toddler a few rooms away. THWACK. There goes Bunny Bear. My time is short now. I jump out of bed, stumble into as few pieces of furniture as possible, and stagger into her room. As I finally peel back the sleep mask (why didn't I think of that sooner?), I see her sweet rosy cheecks and chin resting on the rail of her crib, arms outstretched and she coos an excited greeting to me. "Well, hello there, my Little Bit. How's my Love Muffin this morning?" Her arms reach up and around me, briefly, and she points excitedly toward the door - "Da-da!". Of course.
"Honey, your Da-da has gone to work already, but what about me? I'm here... Remember Ma-Ma?" "Da-da!" she states emphatically and squirms to be let down. "By all means, go look. I'll just get you a clean diaper and a change of clothes and some juice while you look for your precious DaDa. I'll just think of all those times when I puked first thing in the morning until I laid my head back in bed at the end of the day while I was carrying and carefully nurturing you INSIDE MY BODY while you go look for dearest Dada." P.S. - I'm not bitter that she loves him more. I'm glad she's so head over heels for her DaDa. It's what I've always dreamed of. Seriously. Not at all bitter.
As I carry the clothes and shoes and other necessities to my room, she comes scooting in on her little pink car, fearlessly flinging herself into the same doorways and furniture legs I sought to avoid mere moments before. Grinning ear to ear, she leaps into my arms, and with only a little pleading from me, gives me one of the sweetest kisses I'll ever recieve before flopping excitedly on the bed and pointing to the TV. I take what I can get. And love every second. "So what is it this morning, your majesty? Toys? (Toy Story 2) Baa? (Shaun the Sheep), Shrek? (Shrek 2)" "Cars!" she demands. "Hon, cars are only on the computer. You can watch those with Daddy tonight" "Daddy?" she looks around expectantly. "No, tonight.... nevermind. Here, let's get dressed". Cars is her word for watching the endless YouTube clips Chris has found of antique cars being driven. When she gets bored of that, they watch a little "Row, Row" (your boat), and some "Itsy Bitsy" (spider), then maybe a little bluegrass before she's back to watching cars. I honestly have no clue how he's done it, but the two of them have one another wrapped around their fingers. It's sickening, really.
Once dressed, she watches her movie as Mommy scurries to get ready, often noshing on Cheerios or dried fruit and sipping milk. "Come on, cowgirl, time to head out. Ready to go to school and get Bite Bites and see Ms. Lauren?!" Nodding emphatically, she grabs Bunny Bear, jumps aboard the pink car and begins banging her way through the halls to the kitchen. There we have to stop so I can give her medicine - the latest round of antibiotics for the latest ear infections... fun. Thankfully, the kid loves medicine. She's on the far side of the island when I tell her it's time for her medicine, and suddenly I see a chubby hand pop up over the edge of the counter and a pacifier flies onto the granite. Then stomp, stomp, stomp, and a very excited young lady is standing in front of my eagerly awaiting a tube of yummy medicine. She sucks until it's empty, then looks up expectantly - "Mo?" "No, honey, no more until tonight... go get Bunny and let's go"
She stomps around to the other side of the island and I see the chubby hand pop back over the edge of the counter, feeling around for the paci... I slide it closer, and she finds it. I hear the happy slurp as it hits it's target and shortly she appears next to me, bear in hand. She proceeds past me to the door and begins slapping it loudly ("knocking", or our version of it), as I snatch my purse and bags, set the alarm, and out we go. Or out she goes, and stops abruptly in the doorway (just like her Grandma). "Mauwh Mauwh?" she asks, elbows akimbo, hands bouncing in the air. "I don't know where our kitty is this morning, baby. Why don't you call him?" I say as I scurry past her to drop my load in the car and get her seat ready. At this point, we're desperately late, but that doesn't concern her... "MAUWH MAUWH" she cries, looking in every direction. I try to get back in time, but no, she's found her rocks. Has one in each hand and is wielding them somewhat scarily near the bathroom windows. Calling for the cat and stomping along the porch with her rocks, any attempt by me to extract her from the situation is met with a firm howl. "Bite Bites, school, Ms. Lauren," I remind her. She flings the rocks down and starts running toward the steps, hollering "Bite Bites" with every step... At least I know how to motivate the kid. About that time, Mauwh Mauwh shows up, so we have to shriek at him, pet him, then laugh and shriek som more as he begins winding himself through my legs. I have to navigate the field of land mines between letting the very independent toddler walk down the stairs and to the car herself, all while trying not to break an ankle in my heeled shoes on the gravel walk, and avoid tripping over and killing the damn cat (actually, most of the time I like the cat, but when he's between or in front of my every step and I'm already late, he's a damn cat).
Finally, everyone in the car, buckled up and we're on our way. Whew. Hayden has her cell phone and is jabbering excitedly into the reciever. I think it's Mema and Poppie we're talking to this morning. Or about them. I'm never quite sure. She sounds an awful lot like the lady that does my nails, and as I look in the rearview mirror, I can see she's literally foaming from the speed at which she's talking. Every once in a while, I catch a word I think I might understand. "bawl... Mauwh... wock (rock).... Pop-pee...buhbuhls...bite, bites...oooh, oooh (her dog bark)..." This feverishly paced conversation continues until we get to school, and she happily flings the phone aside (I think it landed in the cupholder on the other side of the car) and snatches up her bunny bear and paci and reaches for me. Once unfastened, I remind her the paci stays in the car and she flings it into her seat and bounces happily in my arms. It's Bite Bite Time!
I drop her off in the room, where she runs happily to an empty chair and sits, legs pumping, for Ms. Lauren to bring breakfast. This morning it's a biscuit, chicken patty, and applesauce with milk. She grabs the biscuit and chicken, takes a lick of the chicken before tossing it back on her plate and tearing into the biscuit. I get her attention and blow her a kiss bye-bye, and wait long enough for her to blow me one back "Mwah!".
And, I'm off to work... finally. Late, but I wouldn't trade a minute of the morning I've just had. And not that late...At least we had no melt-downs, explosions or other heart-breaks this morning. I'm sure she's saving that for tomorrow. I can't wait.
Tuesday, August 31, 2010
Wednesday, July 7, 2010
Where, oh where, has our little Bon gone?
Where, oh where could she be?
Knitting and crocheting, of course! Well, maybe not of course, but for sure. I think I mentioned a road trip we took back in March to Amelia where my friend Carrie got me 'hooked' on crocheting again. Well, it's all been downhill from there. Not really. Not downhill at all, but I have become obsessed, as I am apt to do, with my re-newly-found hobbies, and spend every spare second knitting or crocheting. Sometimes both. I love to mix and match and switch around, and keep a good 10-15 projects going all the time.
This week, I just finished a neat Japanese crocheted handbag I've been working on for awhile, and I'm so excited about it.
I call it 'finished' because I'm done crocheting, but I still have the daunting (for me) task of lining it. I have my fabric picked out, and am ready to go, except that my sewing is more of an 'organic' process, and it is always a little more free flowing than making and following a pattern and cutting it out. Also, while I own a sewing machine, it's about 55 years old, and such a bear to lug out of storage, that I often just 'wing it' and stitch by hand. Not too consistent with that (again with the free-flowing strategy). Soooo, I need to wait until I have lots of time (rarely), patience (not often), and peace and quiet (HA!) before I tackle that part of the project. For now, let's just enjoy the outside of my bag, shall we?
Knitting and crocheting, of course! Well, maybe not of course, but for sure. I think I mentioned a road trip we took back in March to Amelia where my friend Carrie got me 'hooked' on crocheting again. Well, it's all been downhill from there. Not really. Not downhill at all, but I have become obsessed, as I am apt to do, with my re-newly-found hobbies, and spend every spare second knitting or crocheting. Sometimes both. I love to mix and match and switch around, and keep a good 10-15 projects going all the time.
This week, I just finished a neat Japanese crocheted handbag I've been working on for awhile, and I'm so excited about it.
I call it 'finished' because I'm done crocheting, but I still have the daunting (for me) task of lining it. I have my fabric picked out, and am ready to go, except that my sewing is more of an 'organic' process, and it is always a little more free flowing than making and following a pattern and cutting it out. Also, while I own a sewing machine, it's about 55 years old, and such a bear to lug out of storage, that I often just 'wing it' and stitch by hand. Not too consistent with that (again with the free-flowing strategy). Soooo, I need to wait until I have lots of time (rarely), patience (not often), and peace and quiet (HA!) before I tackle that part of the project. For now, let's just enjoy the outside of my bag, shall we?
Sunday, July 4, 2010
Happy 4th of July!
We spent the day hanging out with Ian, Barb, Chris and Phyllis at their pool (check out the awesome waterslide!) and then at their house grilling some burgers and watching Shaun the Sheep. I have to say this is one of the best 4ths EVER! Good times, good food, good friends! Hope yours was just as great!
Wednesday, June 16, 2010
Play Date
A couple weeks ago our good friends Barbara and Chris brought over their son Ian to play with Hayden and we all hung out and enjoyed the beautiful weather on the back porch. I got the brilliant idea of entertaining the munchkins with bubbles while Chris (Lair) manned the camera.
All went beautifully...
...for awhile. Hayden was thoroughly entertained, and Chris got some amazing pictures, but Ian was not so impressed with the bubbles... At least not when Miss Bonnie blew a bunch that the breeze carried right over into his little face. Let's just say the fun got a bit overwhelming...
...and I've never felt like a bigger heel, making that sweet little boy cry.
But, all was soon forgiven. We took the crazieness and festivities down a notch and headed inside to dig through Hayden's mountainous tub of toys, which both Ian and Hayden heartily approved of.
Hayden shows off her mad doodling skillz while Ian sports his bag mamma-jamma earthworm scarf (that his mommy made for him, from scratch!)
Pretty good fun for a lazy Monday holiday afternoon.
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Too Fast
The child really is growing up too fast.
I can't believe she's brushing her own teeth now. Next, she'll be driving. Breaks my heart a little.
Tuesday, June 15, 2010
"Oh, God"
My dearest little pudding-pie honey bee sweetums came out with her first inappropriate phrase this weekend (we won't say bad, although she did come out with one of those as well), and while I'm blaming this one entirely on daddy (give me a minute, you'll see why), it's been a wake up call to us both that we need to watch our mouths.
As I was changing the aforementioned Snookums' dirty, dirty diaper this weekend, I made the comment, "Ohh, Honey! Let me get the wipes. This one's a doozie!"
To which my little angel-babe responded, "Oh, God!" (which in her VERY Southern accent came out, "Ohhh, Gaaawwwwd!")
I froze, not sure I'd heard her correctly. "What, sweetie?"
"Oh, God!" It was then that I realized just exactly who she sounded like. Her loving, doting father has the exact same reaction whenever he releases those little tabs to discover one of her more "productive" creations...
Ahem.
Dear, we need to talk.
She didn't repeat the phrase again until the next poopy diaper a little later that day, and then she again mimicked her daddy. Soon, though, she'd learned to apply her new saying to all sorts of situations. Choked on your milk? "Oh, God!" Dropped your spoon? "Oh, God!" Saw a bug? "Oh, God"
I am avidly working on teaching "Oh, no!" as a substitute, and trying not to show a reaction when the other comes out, but it catches me so off guard to hear this sweet cherubic little voice singing out this little phrase. Part of me wants to laugh, part of me wants to cry, and part of me wants to break the duct tape out for mine and hubby's mouths.
As I was changing the aforementioned Snookums' dirty, dirty diaper this weekend, I made the comment, "Ohh, Honey! Let me get the wipes. This one's a doozie!"
To which my little angel-babe responded, "Oh, God!" (which in her VERY Southern accent came out, "Ohhh, Gaaawwwwd!")
I froze, not sure I'd heard her correctly. "What, sweetie?"
"Oh, God!" It was then that I realized just exactly who she sounded like. Her loving, doting father has the exact same reaction whenever he releases those little tabs to discover one of her more "productive" creations...
Ahem.
Dear, we need to talk.
She didn't repeat the phrase again until the next poopy diaper a little later that day, and then she again mimicked her daddy. Soon, though, she'd learned to apply her new saying to all sorts of situations. Choked on your milk? "Oh, God!" Dropped your spoon? "Oh, God!" Saw a bug? "Oh, God"
I am avidly working on teaching "Oh, no!" as a substitute, and trying not to show a reaction when the other comes out, but it catches me so off guard to hear this sweet cherubic little voice singing out this little phrase. Part of me wants to laugh, part of me wants to cry, and part of me wants to break the duct tape out for mine and hubby's mouths.
Friday, April 30, 2010
MIA
So, I know I've been a little absentee lately, but let me explain...
First, daylight savings hit. Then, it got warm. Then, my husband rented a bobcat. And, weeks later, I'm still trying to figure out what the hell happened to our yard.
But, good news, we have the beginnings of grass! In the right places! And a flower garden! And about a dozen other projects we will finish in the next 5 years or so....
Today, though, is Friday. A day of rest. Or of anticipating rest. Or at least of being done with this long freaking work week.
So, some amusements for you on this Friday.
I have, as I mentioned, gotten back into crocheting recently, and have been having so much fun finding new projects and patterns (also something I've used my time for rather than posting... sorry, attention span of a gnat here.). One of the new things I want to try is some Amigurumi, which is a japanese word for the little teeny crocheted toys and animals that are too cute for words. I have been shopping for patterns and found some amazing ones from a lady in Germany, who in her words, has been bitten by the Amigurumi bug:
Having studied German myself, Jana's writing (the Amigurumi-fever-clutched woman) is amusing because I can almost see the translation coming from her end. Our two languages are structured so differently, it's difficult to make an intelligible translation. So, I'm sure that I sounded to my German friends much like this when I lived over there (describing a kitty cat pattern):
Or perhaps I would have described these sheep like this:
Mostly, though, I probably just sounded like this:
Don't ask.
Have a great weekend!
First, daylight savings hit. Then, it got warm. Then, my husband rented a bobcat. And, weeks later, I'm still trying to figure out what the hell happened to our yard.
But, good news, we have the beginnings of grass! In the right places! And a flower garden! And about a dozen other projects we will finish in the next 5 years or so....
Today, though, is Friday. A day of rest. Or of anticipating rest. Or at least of being done with this long freaking work week.
So, some amusements for you on this Friday.
I have, as I mentioned, gotten back into crocheting recently, and have been having so much fun finding new projects and patterns (also something I've used my time for rather than posting... sorry, attention span of a gnat here.). One of the new things I want to try is some Amigurumi, which is a japanese word for the little teeny crocheted toys and animals that are too cute for words. I have been shopping for patterns and found some amazing ones from a lady in Germany, who in her words, has been bitten by the Amigurumi bug:
"The Amigurumi fever does not let go me also after 2 years. New occurs constantly to me. I move the most great ideas and issue them here in the shop."Don't get me wrong. I'm not making fun of her. I highly commend anyone who can use multiple languages. It's a great skill to have, and one I am adament Hayden will learn.
Having studied German myself, Jana's writing (the Amigurumi-fever-clutched woman) is amusing because I can almost see the translation coming from her end. Our two languages are structured so differently, it's difficult to make an intelligible translation. So, I'm sure that I sounded to my German friends much like this when I lived over there (describing a kitty cat pattern):
"The sweet small Fianna brings joy and life in every home. Everybody loves her because she looks with her sweet eyes so nicely. Her irresistible charm wraps everybody around the small finger.Or maybe something like this, describing a pattern for two cows:
And now everybody can crochet to themselves his own small cat itself!"
" For all cow fans and those who still want to become it: the new crochet instructions for the sweet little cows Alma & Berta are finally ready. Grow your own farm !!!"
Or perhaps I would have described these sheep like this:
"These both sweet sheep conquer every heart in the storm. Whether black or white, with their special charm they are a great small present to Easter…or also to any other occasion !! This pattern fits very well to the pattern “Little horses” and “Little cows”!!"
Mostly, though, I probably just sounded like this:
"Ich habe viele, viele Hahnchen in meinem Auto!"
(I have many, many chickens in my car)
Don't ask.
Have a great weekend!
Tuesday, April 13, 2010
In which my heart skips a beat
It's a good feeling when you pull up to work 15 minutes late (and you've forewarned your boss that you'll be in late because today is picture re-takes for your 1 year old, who (by the way) was NOT in the mood for picture re-takes and has already made your morning a tale of woe and grief), to see said Boss, along with the HR Director and IT Manager standing on the front steps of the office awaiting you.
That one always gets me.
This morning, it just so happened that the HR Director had brought a package over for a project that my boss, IT and I were working on, and they were helping her unload it from her car. Whew.
That one always gets me.
This morning, it just so happened that the HR Director had brought a package over for a project that my boss, IT and I were working on, and they were helping her unload it from her car. Whew.
Tuesday, April 6, 2010
Some miscellaneous thoughts from this morning
- This is my 200th blog post. I feel like it should be something profound, but honestly, I lack the energy. Whoot! There you go. A wee bit o' celebration to kick it off.
- I'm out of deodorant. I started to look for an extra, and then I remembered I only buy extras for Chris. I swear the man eats the stuff. I have to buy 2-3 at a time. Almost every other shopping trip. I have this nagging little fear that one day, wandering around in the depths of our basement, I'm going to unearth his true life's work - a full-sized, shower-fresh sculpture of Henry Ford. Or something equally disturbing. One thing I have to give him credit for - if you EVER, EVER smell something the least bit unpleasant in his vicinity, I can GUARANTEE you that it's not him. Sometimes he puts more on before he comes to bed at night. I think he does that just for the repellant effect, though. I can't stand to cuddle with an armpit full of chemically concocted "Morning Fresh" man. Ugh. It's his way of making sure he's got plenty of room to sleep on his side of the bed without getting crowded out, is my theory. Anyway, my point of this story was that I need to get some deodorant next time I got to the store.
- There's no spell check on this new blog editor. Unless they have sneakily inserted it where only those smart enough (surely) to spell their words correctly would be able to locate it. Therefore, I can accept no responsibility for misspelled words at this time. I love you all, but not enough to get out my dictionary and double-check. You will all have discovered that I am not the perfect speller you have come to know and love, and I will be forever ruined. Or not. Moving on...
- While, at our house, we love and respect the "Baby Einstein" videos for their toddler-entrancing powers, I do have a beef with the new one we got - "Baby's First Moves". I usually put these videos on while Hayden is eating her breakfast and I'm scrambling to get ready - this cuts my interruptions down to only about 20 a minute, and I make a little progress here and there between the need for me to hold her newfound treasures - a sock, my shoe, my other shoe, that teeny piece of dirt that was on the floor, bunny bear, a coat hanger, a dirty diaper, a clean diaper, a soggy cheerio she just coughed up, another soggy cheerio, a dirty tissue, the hairbow I just put in her hair, the other hairbow I just put in her hair, her paci, a book (a book I need to read RIGHT NOW), and so on and so forth. So this new video is great, and gets her moving along with the video - "where's your nose? Touch your nose!", "clap!", "roll over!", "peek-a-boo!","sit up!", "jump!", "KICK!".... Kick?!?! What the? What the crap do you expect my child to kick? While watching a video? In the house? In a room with lots of breakable items? Why? Why? Why would you... why? Just why? I could go along with all the other activities - no props required, no real worries of damage or destruction, to the child or their surroundings, and here you freaking Disney nuts go and insert "Kick!" in your little video, showing this exhuberant (see, thanks to Blogger, I have no idea if I spelled that word right! Point proven!) young boy kicking a huge bouncy ball in an EMPTY studio set. After you've just convinced my child to clap and roll and sit and jump along with you, you tell her to KICK something. FYI, Disney. We weren't prepared. We didn't have a BALL ready. We weren't adequately prepped for this part of the video. So you know what my wonderful 16 month old (brilliant kid by the way) decided to do? Improvise! Lovely! I am so proud that she put two and two together and figured since she couldn't kick a ball she'd have to find something else. I just wish it hadn't been her toy keyboard. Or anything, for that matter. We already struggle with the 'dropping/throwing things for fun' game, and now, with your encouragement, we've learned a new variation - the kicking the crap out of things for fun game. :) Joy.
- Do I need a 5th thought this morning? I feel as if I've been sufficiently witty, sarcastic and bitter to get me through the whole day. Maybe I can end on a sweeter note. Actually, I do have a good thought to end on. When Hayden and I got to school, I got her out of her seat and was preparing to set her down to walk her in (she walks into school now! On her own two little legs! It kills me a little everytime. Too FAST, she's growing up too fast!), she decided it was a good moment for a hug. So she leaned in and wrapped her tiny arms around my shoulders, rested her head on my chest, just right where I could bury my face in her sweet hair and take in her perfect smell. She was in no hurry to dash off my lap and run in, so I just sat, as long as she was willing, and held her close and soaked in the precious moment. I try to do that - take the time, when she decides it's time - to hold her close and love her and enjoy her, because I know that all too soon, those moments will become fewer and farther between and I'll wish for them in earnest. So there we sat in the parking lot, hugging one another and resting our heads together, enjoying that tender moment. And then, before I knew it, we were off again!
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Sunday, April 4, 2010
Happy Easter
On this, the morning of Our Redeemer's resurrection, I want to share a passage with you that profoundly changed my life, that gave me a hope beyond the confines of this world, that will see me through the shadow and pain of death. This morning, His message has swelled in my heart once again to renew the assurances of his love for us all, to remind me of his great sacrifice, and the FAITH that it was not in vain. Have a Happy Easter. May you and your family be blessed, today and always, with God's unending love.
"Faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen." Hebrews 11:1
Monday, March 29, 2010
10 Things I'm Grateful For Today
1. The way Hayden says "uh-oh" right after she throws or drops something (more often throws). That little face is so cute and sweet, and it makes me want to laugh everytime, even though I can't let her see.
2. The sun is out this morning, and I didn't have to wear a coat to work!
3. Daylight Savings Time - loving the longer evenings!
4. Getting to spend a wonderful weekend with friends, family and good food.
5. Getting to watch Hayden play with her Poppie yesterday.
6. How easily Hayden goes to bed at night, and how wonderfully she sleeps now!
7. Hayden's love of books and reading.
8. My new low-maintenance haircut.
9. Hobbies that make me happy. Right now, I'm hooked (no pun intended) on crocheting. Next week will be scrappin' time again!
10. My dear, wonderful Husband, whom I love unconditionally and trust unequivocally. At a time when we are witnessing the devestation that crumbling relationships can wreak on our friends' families, I am grateful for the rock our marriage is built on, and for the relationship we both work hard to maintain. For our child's sake. For our sake.
Have a wonderful Monday, everyone! I hope you can find 10 things to be grateful for this beautiful morning. May God bless you and keep you all!
2. The sun is out this morning, and I didn't have to wear a coat to work!
3. Daylight Savings Time - loving the longer evenings!
4. Getting to spend a wonderful weekend with friends, family and good food.
5. Getting to watch Hayden play with her Poppie yesterday.
6. How easily Hayden goes to bed at night, and how wonderfully she sleeps now!
7. Hayden's love of books and reading.
8. My new low-maintenance haircut.
9. Hobbies that make me happy. Right now, I'm hooked (no pun intended) on crocheting. Next week will be scrappin' time again!
10. My dear, wonderful Husband, whom I love unconditionally and trust unequivocally. At a time when we are witnessing the devestation that crumbling relationships can wreak on our friends' families, I am grateful for the rock our marriage is built on, and for the relationship we both work hard to maintain. For our child's sake. For our sake.
Have a wonderful Monday, everyone! I hope you can find 10 things to be grateful for this beautiful morning. May God bless you and keep you all!
Monday, March 22, 2010
Passing the time...
On our vacation last week, Carrie convinced me to start a new project with her (ok, I kind of just elbowed in or her project, same diff) instead of going cross-eyed reading old rags, and last night, I FINALLY finished it! Voila! Here is my new boardwalk tote!
Thanks to Carrie, who got me back into the crocheting groove...I spent my whole lunch hour looking up new patterns to start! Now, I just have to find the time to do them! Ahh, the best-laid plans. For now, I'm going to enjoy this one shining example of my success (and my HUGE bag... this thing could carry Hayden if it were strong enough. Seriously. Hard to tell from the picture, but it is ginormous!).
Friday, March 19, 2010
One of these things is not like the other
This weekend, Chris and I discovered one of the first major opinions Hayden has made that differs very much from our own. One of her first forays into becoming her own little individual self.
It's not so much that I mind the beach is that, 1) I am not very fond of swimming or playing in waters where there are a) animals abiding, and b) waters I cannot see into, and 2) I cannot stand the never-ending presence of the sand in my clothes, hair, fingernails, cracks and crevices, not to mention car, purse, nose, did I mention fingernails and crevices? once you I have been to the beach. These two things keep me from enjoying most trips to the seaside, although I am fond of the Carribean for its amazing clear blue water, and I do enjoy laying out in the sun a bit, with a chair and a little shade to retreat to every once in awhile.
Chris, on the other hand, has little use for the beach at all. He shares my sentiments about the sand, although probably not to the OCD degree that I do, and he's not much for swimming or playing in the water, just because that's not his thing.
So between us, we've spent probably no more than 3 or 4 hours at any beaches, total, since we've been married. Just not our gig. But we do enjoy taking the occasional walk in the sand, walking to the ocean's edge, maybe even dipping a toe or two in the water, and looking for seashells. That was our objective when we stopped by the public strand in Fernandina last weekend, but we were amazed with an entirely unexpected discovery: Hayden was in her element.
She loved the sand, picking it up and letting it run through her fingers. Flinging small handfuls at nothing in particular. Digging up shells from the soggy grains and carrying them with her like small treasures.
The water was a huge fascination as well. We couldn't let her go or stand her up by herself because she would break and run for the waves the second we did.
She was so eager to go pell-mell into the water. Chris held her right at the water's edge, and they would watch the waves come lapping up the edge of the beach, spilling closer and closer... until... at the last moment possible, Chris would lift her above the swell and dash backwards, keeping (mostly) just out of the ocean's reach. This game delighted Hayden to no end, and I think had we let her, would have entertained her for the better part of the afternoon.
I think I may have just discovered my first reason to really love going to the beach, and Chris and I agreed that we need to plan a trip to the beach this year, to let Hayden continue her explorations, and once the weather warms, get her first dip into the salty spray to see if she likes it as much as she thinks she will. In the meantime, we have a fistful of shells and some amazing memories of this wonderful day to tide us over (pun intended).
She LOVES the beach.
It's not so much that I mind the beach is that, 1) I am not very fond of swimming or playing in waters where there are a) animals abiding, and b) waters I cannot see into, and 2) I cannot stand the never-ending presence of the sand in my clothes, hair, fingernails, cracks and crevices, not to mention car, purse, nose, did I mention fingernails and crevices? once you I have been to the beach. These two things keep me from enjoying most trips to the seaside, although I am fond of the Carribean for its amazing clear blue water, and I do enjoy laying out in the sun a bit, with a chair and a little shade to retreat to every once in awhile.
Chris, on the other hand, has little use for the beach at all. He shares my sentiments about the sand, although probably not to the OCD degree that I do, and he's not much for swimming or playing in the water, just because that's not his thing.
So between us, we've spent probably no more than 3 or 4 hours at any beaches, total, since we've been married. Just not our gig. But we do enjoy taking the occasional walk in the sand, walking to the ocean's edge, maybe even dipping a toe or two in the water, and looking for seashells. That was our objective when we stopped by the public strand in Fernandina last weekend, but we were amazed with an entirely unexpected discovery: Hayden was in her element.
She loved the sand, picking it up and letting it run through her fingers. Flinging small handfuls at nothing in particular. Digging up shells from the soggy grains and carrying them with her like small treasures.
The water was a huge fascination as well. We couldn't let her go or stand her up by herself because she would break and run for the waves the second we did.
She was so eager to go pell-mell into the water. Chris held her right at the water's edge, and they would watch the waves come lapping up the edge of the beach, spilling closer and closer... until... at the last moment possible, Chris would lift her above the swell and dash backwards, keeping (mostly) just out of the ocean's reach. This game delighted Hayden to no end, and I think had we let her, would have entertained her for the better part of the afternoon.
I think I may have just discovered my first reason to really love going to the beach, and Chris and I agreed that we need to plan a trip to the beach this year, to let Hayden continue her explorations, and once the weather warms, get her first dip into the salty spray to see if she likes it as much as she thinks she will. In the meantime, we have a fistful of shells and some amazing memories of this wonderful day to tide us over (pun intended).
PS - Thanks to Carrie and Joel for most of the great photos here!
Thursday, March 18, 2010
God made dirt...
...and dirt don't hurt!
At least that's Hayden's stance on the matter. Still enjoying the new-found benefits of warmer weather and the additional evening daylight, Hayden helped me weed for a bit in the flower beds this evening. Or rather, she helped me rearrange the pinestraw and pluck leaves off of my plants as I dug up the errant briars and clumps of grass (why is it, by the way, that I can't for the life of me get grass to grow in my yard, but it comes up effortlessly and aplenty in my mulch beds? Just makes me want to put mulch on the yard and grass in the beds...).
At least that's Hayden's stance on the matter. Still enjoying the new-found benefits of warmer weather and the additional evening daylight, Hayden helped me weed for a bit in the flower beds this evening. Or rather, she helped me rearrange the pinestraw and pluck leaves off of my plants as I dug up the errant briars and clumps of grass (why is it, by the way, that I can't for the life of me get grass to grow in my yard, but it comes up effortlessly and aplenty in my mulch beds? Just makes me want to put mulch on the yard and grass in the beds...).
I spent several minutes working my way down the front of the house as Hayden played quietly at the corner of the porch, tossing clumps of pinestraw in the air, onto herself, and generally in every which way. I heard her stir, and looked back to check on her.
She came toddling over my way, a rock in each hand, grinning from ear to ear. That is when I noticed she had made it down below the pinestraw in at least an area or two, judging from her Georgia clay-stained lips...
This is why I love having a child. I love seeing the world through her eyes, and giving myself permission to let go of some of the pre-conceptions (is that a word? I dunno... it's late) I have of myself and the world around me. Seeing her like this makes me want to go play in the dirt too, although I have to admit, I'll probably pass on the mud pie for dessert.
Wednesday, March 17, 2010
Concours d'Elegance Weekend
This past weekend, Chris, Hayden and I, along with our friends Carrie and Joel, headed South for the 15th annual Amelia Island Concours d'Elegance. A weekend of fabulous cars, scenery (it's held at the Ritz-Carlton, on their golf course fairways), and food, it has a little something for everyone, and is by far one of our favorite vacations each year.
This year was the first year Carrie and Joel joined us, so we took a couple extra days and made a real weekend trip out of it. Although it was at times (especially when Hayden was low on sleep and patience) a little cramped with all five of us in the 4-Banger, we really enjoyed the company and the trip. Joel and Chris took the wheel, entertaining themselves with car talk and bluegrass soundtracks. Carrie and I manned the baby station in the back, working on our crochet projects, catching up on our magazine reading, entertaining Hayden, and most of all, trying to keep our focus anywhere but on our husbands' driving. It was a good arrangement, with very few general freak-outs or meltdowns, and most of those are claimed by the munchkin.
Friday night we headed straight for S-town (if not the heart, then definitely the soul of Georgia), aka Savannah. We made tracks out to Uncle Bubba's, a restaurant with a well-deserved reputation for some of the best eats in town (or in Georgia, for that matter).
Without so much as a sign to signify the final turn, somehow the crowds still manage to find its simple presence (perhaps they follow their noses), and after a decent wait, we finally took our seats and our turns sampling their fare. The dish of the night was a hard call. With chargrilled oysters and crab bites to start, the flat-out best darn low country boil I've ever tasted, stuffed shrimp that would make you want to slap your mama, and the freshest boiled shrimp around, it's truly a toss up. I'll probably have to go back again soon for the tie-breaker.
Saturday we bummed around historic Fernandina Beach, antique shopping, noshing on crab burgers, and hitting the beach for some photo ops and a little shell searching.
Sunday of course was the big event. The time change made what was already an early wake up call that much more painful, but with Joel's Starbucks in hand, we were on our way to the Island for the Concours. As with every year, the event did not disappoint.
From new models that blow the term 'sports car' off the flippin' map, like this 1001 hp, 16 cylinder Bugatti,
to true race cars, like those of NASCAR's own #43 - Richard Petty, the show spans the gamut.
One thing all these cars have in common is that they are top of their class, shining examples of the very razor-thin edge of an envelope being pushed to the limits. There are concept cars from every era, with features and details that are as much art as they are automobile.
There are historic cars; Chitty Chitty Bang Bang, 1904 Cadillac, Rolls Royce Silver Ghosts, Deusenburgs, Mercedes.
And there are admirers of them all, by the thousands, that join us each year for this amazing event.
The weather was, as it nearly always is, perfect. A good breeze, lots of sunshine, cool enough for a sweater in the morning, warm enough for sandals by the afternoon. Always a nice break from the chill of the mountains, and a promise of what is to come.
Hayden loved every minute outside.
Walking around for nearly the first time in her life in the outdoors, she could barely contain her excitement, hopping, squeaking and clapping with every other step. Running for birds, fish and dogs, playing with the other childen we saw, chasing waves and picking grass, she was in heaven the whole weekend.
After our festivities Sunday, we headed back to downtown Fernandina Beach to the Crab Trap for a sample of the best battered fries I've ever gotten at a restaurant, and some amazing crab legs. Then to the hotel for a hard crash.
Monday, we slowly made our way home (with a short detour back to Uncle Bubba's for some more oysters, boil and a sinful strawberry shortcake), and back to the realities of everyday life. Of all the many years we've made this trip, I have to say that this was probably my favorite. To have our friends, great food, cool cars, favorite cities, shopping and antiquing all rolled into one trip ranks this weekend pretty high in my book. The fact that it was my first vacation from work in over a year didn't hurt its score at all, either.
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
A Horse is a Horse
Unless the horse is one of the famous Budweiser Clydesdales!
My little brother, Dan, is part of the team responsible for hosting these beautiful animals during their stay in Atlanta this week. That's his JOB. What he gets PAID to do! How freaking cool is that?!
The horses are one of the company's famous teams, and are making a week-long tour of the city to do awesome things like meeting the Mayor and participating in the city's St. Patty's Day parade, and Dan gets to go along for the ride, and make sure the horses and their entourage and equipment are all taken care of.
Just another day at the office for him, I guess.
Sunday, March 14, 2010
Move Over, Beethoven!
I think we have a new prodigy in the house!
Although the jury's still out on whether she is more raw talent or hammy entertainer.
Personally, I think I see some of both.
Although the jury's still out on whether she is more raw talent or hammy entertainer.
Personally, I think I see some of both.
Saturday, March 13, 2010
Amagarumi
For those of you who don't know, Amagarumi is the Japanese art of knitting or crocheting small stuffed animals and anthropomorphic creatures. In other words, it is using some mad skillz to craft these itsy-witzy fuzzy-wuzzy cutie wittle flufalumps that make you wish you were 3 again and could carry them around in your 'purse' (which is actually a left-over McDonald's Happy Meal box) everywhere you go.
Thankfully for me, I have an uber-talented friend, Carrie, who has the patience and talent to make these crazy-amazing little suckers, and I have a daughter who I can let play with them (until she goes to bed. Then they're mine... all MINE!), so my cover is not blown. Except for having to explain all the empty Happy Meal boxes in my closet....
Anyway... Long story short, Carrie is how we came to be acquainted with our new little buddy, Sammy the Baby Seal.
Sammy is a sweet little baby seal, complete with festive Winter scarf, who became Hayden's new friend a few weeks ago. I am equally enamored with his sweet little self, but really, how could you not be? Just look at this little fella!He's watching for signs of snow...
That's the one thing this little bugger and I disagree on. He'd love Winter year round, but I'm ready for SPRING!
Other than that, we get along fine, and Hayden doesn't even hold that against him (although judging from her response to the park this past weekend on the warm Sunday afternoon we were blessed with, it could become a sticking point in their relationship).
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